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Your audio course to learn the core skills for easeful, connected relationships

Value-packed audio lessons sharing frameworks, stories & practical how-to’s

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Create easeful relationships

Every aspect of a relationship, even those that are confusing, can be broken down into individual skills. Once you master these skills, navigating dating & relationships becomes more easeful and enjoyable.

Raised in a household where achievement was prioritised over connection, I was fascinated with relationships from a young age . As a 10 year old, I showed my parents a parenting article from Reader’s Digest magazine, pointing out how they weren’t parenting me right (lol).

Since then, from trial, error, study & training, I have figured out how to create and sustain easeful, connected relationships, and I love supporting others to have this experience. People who have happy relationships are better friends, parents, colleagues and bosses, and I see this work as directly contributing to bringing more love into the world.  

What I found is there is a logic to the dynamics, emotions and behaviours within relationship. This program will break down the core frameworks and skills you need to create easeful, connected relationships. 

If there is one thing I want you to know, it’s that you can learn to improve your relationships.   

Relationship is a skill.

Sound familiar?

  • You’re struggling in your relationship & want to understand what it takes to create a healthy ongoing partnership!

  • Your partner says they need more from you but you don’t know what exactly they mean or want from you…

  • You’ve read instagram posts & even a book or two, but still don’t know how to show up as a better partner

  • You love your partner but feel disconnected and want more ease & connection

  • You’re ready to learn the skills to create a healthy, secure, mature relationship so you can actually enjoy & grow in relationship!

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Meet Claire

“The biggest breakthrough is more ease and understanding, acceptance of the other … and knowing how to argue in a way that’s healthy and actually provokes growth. The frameworks give you the map & context to what you’re experiencing rather than just being in the emotional rollercoaster of a relationship.. It’s an amazing investment because it’s the gift that keeps giving - you use the skills everywhere!

Claire Eli, 35, Auckland (previous participant)

“The frameworks give you the map & context to what you’re experiencing rather than just being in the emotional rollercoaster of a relationship”

Claire Eli, 35, Auckland (previous participant)

Relationship Is A Skill
is for you if you:

✔ Want to know the key relational skills to create & sustain healthy, secure relationships for life

✔ Want the most useful, clearly distilled frameworks to actually understand how connection, attachment & relationships work

✔ Want to know how to show up as a better partner

✔ Want a base of mature relating skills so you can be confident in your ability to create healthy relationships.

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Testimonials from past participants

It’s the best investment you will make for yourself. I loved how Susie broke things down in such a way that it was really simple and loved the diagrams. I enjoyed the group environment and having the example for both individuals and couples. I found by other people’s examples I learned quite a lot. This program is what everyone needs whether you’re single or in a relationship.

Sherelle Tramantana, Australia

The money and the time are well spent, it’s beautiful that you kept it simple, because life can be simple, and yet very effective. So definitely recommended.

Andrea Guardascione, Italy

What’s included:

12 audio lessons in an easily accessible private podcast format (see list of episodes!)

Clearly distilled frameworks & relatable stories to ground & clearly understand the 10 foundational skills of relationship

Simple, effective practices for each skill (we’re keeping it easy-to-apply & practical!)

Worksheets with diagrams & powerful prompts

Podcast episodes:

  • My story of love & how best use this course in your dating & relating life. Plus, an invitation in the workbook to reflect on your own story of love.

  • Some helpful frameworks around Love & relationships to start to shift your understanding of how it all works.

  • Learn about ‘inner child’ frameworks to help you understand triggers as well as glimmers (joyful triggers) in your relationships. This is key to understanding what’s really going on in your relationship!

  • Learn how feelers vs thinkers operate in relationship, what emotional attunement really is & how it practically looks, and tips on how to connect to your feelings even if you’re not a ‘feeler’.

    (One of the most popular episodes!)

  • A guided meditation to help you take time out & connect to yourself. This can support you self soothe during anxious moments or conflict, and help you grow your self awareness.

  • Learn how to respond to your partner’s feelings & emotions in a way that they ‘feel felt’ and feel ‘gotten’. A step by step, practical approach to growing and fostering connection & intimacy.

  • Learn about how to recognise, communicate & navigate emotional triggers in relationship!

  • Do you fight over small things, and wonder why you’re even fighting over it? This lesson gives you a framework for recognising core needs so you can understand and respond to what’s really going on under the surface.

  • You’ve heard about attachment theory - let’s go a bit deeper with it so you actually know how your attachment system impacts behaviour, beliefs & feelings. Learn about attachment styles, attachment behaviours & the attachment spectrum.

  • Learn how to fight & how not to fight for easeful, connected relationships. And learn practical steps for creating moments of repair so that you can come back into connection quickly.

  • A practical lesson in what is and isn’t a boundary, how to state boundaries while maintaining connection in relationships and how to make requests.

  • Research shows that the ability to have fun in relationships is a key marker in relationship satisfaction. Learn about how to create a culture of play & connection in your relationship.

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What others have said…

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Questions?

  • Once you purchase the course, you will be sent emails giving you access to the private podcast and a link to the workbook. Follow the instructions to sign up to the private podcast via your preferred major podcast platform.

  • Absolutely! This program is designed to teach you relationship skills that you can use apply in your dating life and future relationships. About half the participants of this course have been single and have shared that learning these skills gave them more confidence & clarity when dating as well as in early relationship

  • Yes, definitely. The relationship skills you learn can be applied by you to shift the dynamics in your relationship, even without your partner’s participation. And if they are curious later down the track, they can access the episodes through your account.

  • Yes, welcome! This is a queer-friendly space teaching skills & frameworks that are the foundation for all healthy relationships.

  • Of course! If you like my style, this program sets out the foundational relationship frameworks in a fun, informative way to support you to continue to master the skills in relating.

  • As this is a digital product with instant access, there are no refunds for change of mind.

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I’m a relationship & intimacy expert based in Sydney with a practical & playful approach to relationships. I help people create deeply connected & wildly nourishing relationships, with both self and other.  A trained therapist as well as a facilitator of embodied temple arts, I bridge the tantric path of universal love & aliveness with a practical, grounded approach to emotions and relationships.

I work with individuals and couples on the topics of dating, relationships (including ENM), sexuality and embodiment, and co-facilitate a weekly therapy group based on the neurobiology of attachment theory

With a lifelong commitment to mastering relationships, which has included over 15 years studying and developing the skills and over 5 years teaching and guiding others in a professional capacity… I’m here to get us all really good at relationships!

About me